“A part of control is learning to correct your weakness”.
Self mastery is an act of self discipline.
That is having total control over your environment both internal and external and it can also mean “doing what you need to do and not what you want to do.”
Needs here means those basic things required for actualizing greatness.
While wants entails both good and bad things that pleases man like sex, drinking etc.
In course of total exploit there are three things you need to take care of and there are:-
- SELF
- SIVER
- SEX
SELF – The first and the foremost achievement in life is self vanquish. That is to have dominion over yourself. This encompasses your feelings, appetite, inferiority complex, procrastination, laziness indecision etc.
Conquering oneself simply means doing what you need to do the time you need to do it. Simply put knowing the time for everything.
SILVER-- Silver encompasses all the material needs of man ranging from primary to secondary. Restiveness has cost some people their desirous future. For you to attain total exploit you must exercise patience. For examples, some youths cannot wait to finish secondary before the quest of making money early in life. Experience has shown that most young people have denied themselves the privilege that could have seen them through in life.
Acquire managerial skill to enable you retain the wealth when it is created. It is insidious to fall from grace to grass.
Don’t sale your birthright because of things that do not out last. Invest your life on something that will out last it (William James).
SEX --“SEX is two edge sword and those that understand it at first always enjoys it but those that are ignorant of it always regret”
Sex is a wonderful gift of nature made primarily for procreation and secondly to establish a stout rapour between spouse. Therefore sex is good. In the other hand, “all that is good is not expedient” (scripture). This means that most of the alluring things of nature have a becoming time for them and in my first book on right information: the secret of exploit, “I said that there are some things that one will enjoy now that will end his joy.so don’t enjoy what will end your joy”.Sex is a gift of marriage. Hence only the married are meant to exploit their sexual ability.
Sex as a terrific gift of marriage or life can also be a calculated dangerous instrument or destruction.
A lot of men have become potent and lost their dignity because of sex and most women their fertility. The devil has taken advantage of our sexual weakness and amorousity to destroy a good number of young and old people through his agents.
Pri-marital sex can lead to unwanted pregnancy among young females and most times can succeed in marring their future and aspiration if it does not destroy them.
Unprotected sex and promiscuity can lead to the contamination of HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases (STD).
Most of the natural and artificial birth control methods or contraceptives employed today are not reliable and have afterwards caused negative effects to the users.
I hereby implore youths to abstain from pre-marital sex, unprotected sex Avoid promiscuity. It is possible and it is all about having a purpose attached to your life.
Better tomorrow and forever than today and never. (Louis). Be careful
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