Thursday, April 21, 2011

PROSTITUTION

This is the abnormal and immoral aspect of relationship. It is self endangering.
It destroys or debases the person involved.
It is inimical to health.
It erodes dignity and exterminates value.
It makes the person involve less human and more of wind animal.
It can lead to premature death or unwanted pregnancy
It is droids of feeling, hence it is materialistic.
Association of any kind, whether friendship, marriage or prostitution is a very delicate one and calls for a scientific approach.
It either make you or mare you.
Even as it is delicate, it is ideal in dream realization. This is because “No man is an Ireland unto himself.
It is therefore impossible to succeed without a partner and also impossible to succeed with a wrong partner. Be careful and wise in choosing a partner especially life partner.
Be a student of those that have succeeded in life. Avoid any relationship that never provides you with an avenue to improve in life.
Don’t give in so easily to sex. Be a friend to someone that shares similar or same purpose with you. Don’t relate with a rich man that you never gain anything from because you will soon spend all you have and become a mendicant. Associate freely with your good friends, neighbors, spouse e t c.
It offers veritable opportunities to improve in reasoning and creativity.
Manage your relationship with care. Don’t despise your old friends. Don’t also treasure your hope on your relatives.
If your father is rich thank God for that because you have achieved half of the whole thing. But if you sleep on your father’s riches rather than using it to attain the height your father could not attain you will one day while sleeping, that problem will cat the whole thing away.
You can do better than your father without even doing the same thing he is doing. You must also understand that your present position status is not a birth right, rather a privilege and you must work at retaining it or else, someone more qualified will be sitting behind you table before you wake up. It takes opportunity to get to the top and takes character to remain there. Build a strong and sound character today.
To build a character is to know the dos and don’ts. To know the time for everything. Simple put to discipline oneself and to try to control your temper.
Don’t, say to somebody “I can do without you” this quite devastating.
Experience has shown that you must do with them especially your relations, friends or any other person directly or indirectly related. A boy out of anger and frustration told his brother that he can do without him hoping that he can do with his beer parlor friends. Remember that while in beer parlor your friends can promise you heaven and earth but is always a mere promise. When this fellow got admission all his beer parlor friends dashed to the “thin air” leaving him with the brother he told he can do without. There is a friend of mine whom I thought would at anytime that i call, give me all the financial support I could need from him as a student but I was proved wrong the first day I asked for N 2000 only. Whenever I encounter this follow, he will be carelessly spending his money but if I happen to mention giving me some money for my school welfare, he will talk of expenses incurred last two years, last years and even a day before we met. After a week he told me of told me of a land he bought, fix deposit, renting a flat, even having a plan of have thing overseas.
Friends can help but good ones. All that glitters is act gold.

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