“A strong positive self image is the best preparation of success for life”
Inferiority complex is a condition where by somebody sees himself or her self below others owing to some factors or qualities.
Most of the causes of Inferiority complex are:
Incapacitation or deformity
Status
Illiteracy
Ugliness
Poverty
Sex (male and female)
Age (Young and Old)
Tribe / Origin
Nature of birth (Illegitimacy)
Size/height/Color
Some of the above factors are natural and some are man made defects .
Whether natural or man made, avoid them. If it is natural, God has a purpose for that.
Discover the purpose and enjoy the condition. No man lives without weakness or deformity. It worries me when I see some people (Mostly girls) apply bleaching cream to atone their skin color making themselves prone to cancer and burnt and make surgery complicated and a risk. It does not only expose you to cancer but also makes you stenchful.
If you reject yourself, others with reject you but it you accept yourself others will accept you. You are the cause of your defects.
“A strong positive self-image is the best preparation for success for life”
No man is an accident whether legitimate or illegitimate. You are a wishful product of God’s thought with a unique purpose.
Read this:
- I am the boss, I was born like any other person, but I am special in my way of doing things.
- I am the one everybody like to hear, talk, sing & pay to see.
- I return life, hope & future to people,
- I hear broke minds, revive demised spirits, & reposition life for best.
- Just because I sat down, think, considered & analyzed my thoughts, i discovered that there is something unique in me which when exploited will amount to greatness.
- My weapons were positive confessions, determination, diligence, persistent, devotion, & eagerness.
- All these I used to destroy my weakness & became strong & up & doing.
- As a result, kings are my friends and they listen & harken to my advice.
- They value me because I value myself,
- They care for me because I care for myself.
- I Influence peoples, I influence kings, I am now the king of all kings under God & by his grace I am promoted.
- I am the most wanted
- I am what I tagged myself
- I am the Boss.
- Go to movie industry, you will discover that some of the prominent characters there are deformed in one way or the other but we pay today to watch them, snap with them and even befriend them e. g .
How much more you that was born with every thing needed of a man or woman (though exteriority). Why feel inferior?
Build your strengths & destroy your weakness. You are inferior if only you accept you are inferior.
That you came from a poor family does not mean that you are poor but it means that your parents are poor and requires you to be rich to make up for their lapses.
Inferiority complex is not an act of humanity. Be humble & polite, it is what is required of everybody (whether rich or poor).
The level you are today & hope to be tomorrow is an important determining factor to your success.
The different because somebody that is in tertiary institution & somebody that is trying to get in is that, the other person is already there, & the other person is yet to get in.
The first thing in life is taking decision, another thing is having the necessary resources, which includes determination & finally implementing it.
That you are not already in tertiary institution or in business should not make you feel inferior and that your business is not flourishing today, tomorrow could be better. Be determined & persistence.
You could do better than any other person when you get there. Just be yourself & be humble.
But respect those that are already there because it is not easy to get there. You might need their assistant when you get there and they have gotten what you have not. Transform your deformity to celebrity. Happy exploit
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